Boarding School Syndrome

What is Boarding School Syndrome?

Boarding school syndrome refers to the psychological and emotional challenges that individuals may face after attending boarding school during childhood or adolescence. The separation from family at a young age, combined with the institutionalized environment of a boarding school, can lead to feelings of abandonment, detachment, and emotional suppression.

The Emotional Impact of Boarding School

Many individuals who attended boarding schools experience difficulties in forming close relationships, struggle with trust, and may have unresolved feelings of loneliness or rejection. The rigid structure and lack of emotional nurturing can lead to a suppressed ability to express vulnerability and emotion.

How Counselling Helps Heal Boarding School Syndrome

Therapy offers a space to explore and process the emotional scars left by the boarding school experience. Through counselling, individuals can work through feelings of abandonment, rediscover their emotional needs, and learn to form healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Rebuilding Emotional Connection

Counselling helps individuals reconnect with their emotions, process their past experiences, and build stronger, healthier relationships with others. Therapy also supports individuals in rediscovering their sense of identity and self-worth, which may have been diminished during their boarding school years.

  • Understanding emotional detachment
  • Reconnecting with emotions
  • Healing abandonment issues
  • Building healthy relationships
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Sharon Twomey Brighton

Sharon Twomey

Psychotherapeutic counsellor

I’m Sharon, a qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor offering short and long term therapy across Brighton and Hove both in person and online. My work is trauma-informed and rooted in compassion, supporting adults facing challenges such as anxiety, depression, grief, addiction, stress, and relational difficulties.My approach is deeply empathic and nurturing, blending warmth with thoughtful challenge. I offer a confidential space where you can feel held with care as you reflect, engage with difficult emotions, and begin the journey toward meaningful and lasting change.

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Tony Austin Brighton

Tony Austin

Integrative psychotherapist

Common feelings such as anxiety, a lack of self-worth or sadness colour our experience and often leave us feeling we have lost our way. Sometimes we can feel like our own worst enemy, giving ourselves a hard time because others can manage, so why can’t I?I chose to train as a psychotherapist after being in therapy myself. Through the process of talking with a skilled therapist I was able to reflect on how my past had shaped my present, understand myself better, value myself more and create a happier, more fulfilled life and I want to help others do the same. Nothing gives me greater satisfaction than having a client say they feel “unburdened” at the end of a session or, at their final session, seeing them leave with greater confidence ready to make the changes necessary to create the life they want.After completing my training as a counsellor at Lambeth College, I worked for an NHS counselling service in West London. I helped many clients dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship breakdown and many other common issues and seeing so many people find positive solutions fuelled my passion for therapy and I would like to help you.  I believe everyone deserves to be heard and with the right support can create positive, lasting change. Through our work together, I can help you reduce anxiety, rebuild your confidence, learn how to recognise unhelpful habits such as “people pleasing”, or “self-sabotage” and create better relationships with yourself and others.If you want to learn more about how counselling can help you, get in touch through the link at the bottom of this page and take the first step to happier, more fulfilling life.

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