Perfectionism

What is Perfectionism?

Perfectionism is the pursuit of flawlessness, often accompanied by critical self-evaluation and fear of making mistakes. While striving for excellence can be motivating, perfectionism can lead to stress, anxiety, and burnout. Individuals with perfectionistic tendencies may set unrealistically high standards for themselves, leading to chronic dissatisfaction and a negative impact on emotional well-being.

The Role of Counselling in Addressing Perfectionism

Therapy helps individuals explore the underlying causes of their perfectionism, such as fear of failure or a desire for approval. Counselling focuses on developing healthier ways of thinking, reducing self-criticism, and fostering self-compassion.

Building a Balanced Approach to Success

Through therapy, individuals learn to adopt a more balanced approach to success, allowing them to pursue their goals without compromising their mental health. Counselling helps individuals set realistic expectations for themselves and celebrate their achievements, even if they fall short of perfection.

Improving Emotional Well-Being

Therapy also focuses on improving emotional well-being by helping individuals develop self-compassion and reducing the pressure they place on themselves. This leads to greater life satisfaction and reduced anxiety.

  • Understanding the roots of perfectionism
  • Building self-compassion
  • Reducing self-criticism
  • Developing a balanced approach to success
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Therapists who can help with perfectionism

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Alan Sparkes Hove

Alan Sparkes

Psychotherapist & Counsellor

I am a qualified UKCP registered Psychotherapist. I aim to help people heal and integrate. I’m a parent, a skateboarder, a basketball player and I’ve done a lot of therapy.I don't do psychic amputation. I believe you can't cut off a part of yourself you don’t like or that causes you pain - and that you will run into more problems if you try. I do believe you can reach into your heart and soul through therapy and establish a healing relationship that will give you the resources you need to live well and fully.  

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Andy Wolage Brighton

Andy Wolage

Therapeutic Counsellor

Sometimes life is really hard. Everything feels like too much. We can get overwhelmed with guilt for not coping, shame for having failed in the past and sometimes we can end up not really liking ourselves very much. We might self medicate with substances or other behaviours which we know don't really help, but they seem better than nothing. But they just perpetuate the cycle. I can offer you a safe, non-judgemental and confidential space to organise and reframe those overwhelming feelings and see the wood for the trees. I can help you understand yourself better and to begin to look in the mirror and like what you see. 

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Thaddeus Hickman Brighton

Thaddeus Hickman

Psychotherapist

I’m an experienced, integrative psychotherapist, registered with both UKCP and BACP. I work with clients to support their immediate struggles, while also helping them understand and identify underlying and often unseen issues - a process which often leads to positive and lasting change.

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Tony Austin Brighton

Tony Austin

Integrative psychotherapist

Common feelings such as anxiety, a lack of self-worth or sadness colour our experience and often leave us feeling we have lost our way. Sometimes we can feel like our own worst enemy, giving ourselves a hard time because others can manage, so why can’t I?I chose to train as a psychotherapist after being in therapy myself. Through the process of talking with a skilled therapist I was able to reflect on how my past had shaped my present, understand myself better, value myself more and create a happier, more fulfilled life and I want to help others do the same. Nothing gives me greater satisfaction than having a client say they feel “unburdened” at the end of a session or, at their final session, seeing them leave with greater confidence ready to make the changes necessary to create the life they want.After completing my training as a counsellor at Lambeth College, I worked for an NHS counselling service in West London. I helped many clients dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship breakdown and many other common issues and seeing so many people find positive solutions fuelled my passion for therapy and I would like to help you.  I believe everyone deserves to be heard and with the right support can create positive, lasting change. Through our work together, I can help you reduce anxiety, rebuild your confidence, learn how to recognise unhelpful habits such as “people pleasing”, or “self-sabotage” and create better relationships with yourself and others.If you want to learn more about how counselling can help you, get in touch through the link at the bottom of this page and take the first step to happier, more fulfilling life.

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